I was having dinner in Paisley
sitting next to an elderly Australian couple making plans for the following
day. She was spending the trip researching ancestry in Scotland and told the
server that her family had emigrated from Scotland in the 1930s. Now she was
working on her husband’s family. Later, after not paying attention for quite a
while, I noticed that the man was trying to teach his wife how to say
“American,” with an American accent: uh-mur-a-cun.
She was trying to make the E a long E and could not quite get the hang of it.
Saturday, June 17, 2017
Friday, June 16, 2017
Overheard in Lerwick
I was in a shop that specializes in
fishing equipment, work clothes, and tourist items. It was, what the locals
would call, a bright day. As a matter of perspective, to myself and the widget
on smartphone, it was 55F and mostly cloudy with patches of blue. There were
some rain clouds in the distance. As such, this was the exchange I heard:
Local man buying provisions: “It’s
a beautiful day.”
Female shop attendant: “Yes. I wish
summer could be like this every day.” (Pause with a slight sigh) “You live and
hope.”
Friday, June 9, 2017
Cultural Differences
We see differences in cultural
expectations when traveling quite often. I once heard Martha Nussbaum say that Americans wander through the world as if they already
knew all about it. They are blind to the hopes, needs,
and desires of others. My observation is that Americans tend to be friendly,
outgoing, and, on the surface, polite. But there is a tendency to temporarily
claim ownership over various pieces of public property. Often not meaning to be
so, the effect is rude. There is a tendency for Americans, particularly young
Americans, to drape their feet over the arms of chairs, put their feet upon
couches, and to take up as much room in public spaces as they wish. It is
difficult for them to fathom that others would prefer not to sit in seats with
the residuals of their shoes on their nice, clean clothes. I have observed
Americans as incredulous that anyone would suggest seats, and adjacent seats,
be treated as public space. As far as some are concerned, sitting in the seat
renders it their property for the duration of their stay.
It would be unfair to think only
young people engage in such behavior. Sitting at breakfast, in Belfast, I
shared the dining area with a group of American students who greeted their
Irish guide, one by one, with a cheerful, “Good morning Shane!” As with many
university trips, there were some adults in the group as well. Shane was seated
at the common table with me, drinking a cup of tea and checking his messages
before the day’s activities. A middle-aged man from the group walked up to
Shane and pulled his metal tea infuser from his tea cup and asked, “Why do you
have a paperclip in your cup?” Obviously, he thought this was funny, but it was
overly familiar. Shane was more polite and good-humored about the situation
than I would have been; he patiently explained that he liked a special type of
tea, but he was cut off by the man who began inquiring about the itinerary for
the day. Within a few minutes the same man pulled out a chair and joined a
group of students, but completely blocked in people on my side of the common
table. When I went to get a refill of coffee, his wife called his attention to
his inconvenience and he looked at me and said that I could squeeze through.
Kalervo Oberg described culture
shock as what happens when you travel and find that things are not as you expect.
Perhaps I just think people should be on their best behavior when traveling and
am surprised when they are not.
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